Will I Ever Find LOVE Again?
Will I Ever Find Love Again?
(3 Things You Must Stop Doing)
Finding love again can feel like a real challenge. Maybe it doesn’t even sound possible or probable given your age or broken heart. I know because I once thought finding true love was about as likely as winning a multi-million dollar lottery – possible, but highly unlikely.
Will I ever find love again is such a vulnerable question. If you are over 40, you probably feel a deeper sense of urgency. I know because I was there too. Thankfully I chose not to stay stuck and instead began a journey which lead me to the wonderful husband and partner I share my life with today. (And yes, I was over 40.)
Consider what you may be doing that isn’t working. Most people think dating, love and marriage is just a numbers game or a matter of luck. But, here’s the thing – you can’t win the lottery if you don’t buy a ticket. Often, I meet single women who are not taking any action in the direction of their relationship dreams. You must play to win.
Here are 3 things you can do right now to begin. They may seem counter-intuitive, but this love relationship expert and coach knows how important these practices are to finding love again.
Stop telling friends and family your old story. Remember the Law of Attraction? Like attracts like. When you keep telling your old stories of love and loss and heart-break you unwittingly place yourself right back in a negative energy field. When you want to attract love it’s so important to be upbeat and positive about your prospects.
I know it’s easier said than done. I can show you what to do instead. It’s vital to replace an old habit with a new one for the change to stick long-term. It’s not a matter of will- power. In fact, many studies demonstrate poor results from attempts to use willpower to change things that are deeply ingrained, especially when intense emotion is involved.
Stop focusing on the do’s and don’t of dating. Yes, I teach my clients everything they need to know about men, dating and marriage, but the art of attracting love isn’t found in your mastery of the “mechanics” of dating. I know it’s tempting to think you’d be married by now or have your dream boyfriend, if you just knew where to find him and what to do and say when you meet. This is not the truth.
It’s also a fallacy to believe you’re still single because you’re too old, not pretty enough or in perfect shape, etc. You are not in a great love relationship because of your beliefs, attitudes and several other things you haven’t known about yourself and the process of emotional connection. This is the truth.
Stop feeling jealous of other people’s love relationships. I know it’s hard to change this habit, but I can show you how. You must not envy others good fortunes, if you want what they have in your life too. It’s not as simple as telling you to what to do like so many coaches do. I will show you how. You can do it. It’s not hard once you know how. The women who’ve taken my Love Coaching Program, without exception are delighted they chose to invest in themselves.
I want you to know how happy they are when they finish my program, not to brag but to share with you how powerful and effective the changes are for them. It’s common for graduates to say their lives have been forever changed and they are so grateful. I do this work because I love the amazing results.
Finding love at any age does not need to seem like brain surgery or climbing Mount Everest. The real secrets can be discovered and experienced. You just need a guide to show you the way.
If you are ready to stop searching on your own then contact me. Let’s chat – it’s complimentary. Together we can get you on the road to your desired destination. Finding love again, especially after 40 can be fun and exciting and best of all possible.
Gayla Wick, Denver Love Coach
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