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Looking For Love Isn't the Answer
Author: Gayla Wick
Looking For Love Isn't the Answer

Rumi, the famous 13th century poet and philosopher had something profound to say about love that remains true centuries later. His advice is a powerful key to unlocking the doors to manifesting the partner of your dreams.  He said, "Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." This can be challenging to understand and to follow unless you are open to looking at your contribution to the life you’re now living – whether single or in an unsatisfying partnership. 

For those aware of the law of attraction (that which is like unto itself is attracted or more simply like attracts like) you know we cannot focus on lack of anything and receive abundance. We don’t have to believe in the law of attraction for it to be working in our lives any more than we have to believe in gravity for it to work. In the last decade my studies have lead me to know and accept the law of attraction as one of the most powerful universal laws of the Universe.  Just as humans learned to use gravity’s laws and the laws of electromagnetism to enhance our lives, we can train our minds to focus on what we want to create and see wonderful results. And just the opposite is also true.  We can focus on the lack of what we do not have and we will get more of it.  This is true in life and in love.

 I see so many women putting tons of energy into wishing and hoping to find true love, but actually believing that it will never happen for them.  Becoming aware of limiting beliefs is the first step to making changes in our thoughts and therefore in our lives.  Common beliefs I hear in my love coaching practice include: there aren’t very many decent men out there, all of the good ones are taken, I’m too old, all men cheat, and/or I’m too set in my ways to be in a relationship, etc.  These beliefs often mask the root of the problem which is inadequate self-esteem. Some women struggle with this issue not realizing they are actually blocking their love connection.

In the yearlong research project for my book, I interviewed women from across the nation and they told stories of struggle with self-esteem, yet when they accepted their own self worth, set standards for their relationships and raised their own level of personal happiness, love quickly found its way to them. I encourage you to decide to be happy even if you have things about which to be unhappy.  I will tell you this – being unhappy will not get you to your goal.  Instead let any sense of dissatisfaction in your life be the driver for change.  Find something to be happy about even as you may be dealing with stressful issues.  If you can accept the law of attraction as real, you can take steps to use it for your own good.  What do you have to lose by trying it?  You can prove it to yourself without taking anyone’s word for it, including mine.

Until next time remember:  You can use the law of attraction to enhance your personal happiness and by doing so attract the love of your life.

I'd love to hear from you.  Please leave a comment or question below and you can let me know what you’d like to read about in my upcoming blog posts. 


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