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Aug
12

Finding the Love of Your Life – Key #2
Author: Gayla Wick
Finding the Love of Your Life – Key #2

Happy Friday readers!  This is one of my favorite days of the week because I can look forward to relaxing and having fun with my husband for two whole days!  Friday night is sometimes “date night out” and sometimes “date night in” just chilling on the patio with a glass of wine and talking.  So what does this have to do with you finding the love of your life? Plenty.

We all need to truly relax into some activity that reminds us of who we really are.  Working hard at work all week and then running around non-stop all weekend can lead to being frazzled.  I talk a lot about doing things you love to do as a way of floating around in positive energy.  While that’s so true, it’s wonderful to just do nothing as well.  It’s even better to do some “nothing” with a friend or two practicing the fine art of communicating.  We might talk all day at work or at home, but that doesn’t necessarily mean we’re using language to our best advantage.

In the past I frequently used future oriented words to describe what I wanted.  That changed when I learned more about the law of attraction.  I learned that words have power so choosing them more mindfully can create better results.  It’s been said, we don’t get what we want; we get what we are or we get what we believe.  To assist with this process I often ask my coaching clients to think about what they truly believe about men, marriage and themselves. Our true beliefs often come out in the words we use every day. Once we know what our beliefs are we can reframe them if they’re not serving us. Example: Saying I’m so tired of being single and going to events alone is understandable, but it can be much more empowering to replace that with thoughts of happiness at being invited, thoughts of how you’ll feel when you are going to an event with a partner and basking in those feelings knowing it will happen for you, perhaps this very night!  So keep framing your thoughts to stay in the positive energy zone.

Until next time remember: Relaxing into where you are now can help you powerfully see and feel the future you desire.

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