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Who Said What About Love – Part I
Author: Gayla Wick
Today, I decided it was time for a new series. You’ve been listening to me for the past 39 weeks (that’s how long I’ve been blogging) as I’ve shared my experiences and best advice about love relationships. In my research for inspiration and information I’m often led to interesting ideas from famous people, musicians and new thought leaders. I don’t know how long this series will last, but I’m going to begin writing about wisdom from others to inspire and motivate you in the direction of claiming your highest good in love and in life, but especially in love because deeply satisfying love relationships are the very foundation of a truly and uniquely happy life.
Bob Marley is not exactly the first person I had in mind to begin this series, but after finding this quote, it was so right on point I had to use it now. Bob Marley, a Jamaican singer-songwriter and musician (1945 – 1981) gave us the following brilliant quote about love relationships, “
“He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.”
Beautifully said; there is so much wisdom here. If you’ve read my book or my blog posts for awhile now you know how much I believe there is a perfect partner for each of us. That perfect life partner won’t be a perfect person because no one is perfect. And you’ll also know that I don’t believe in “settling.” Women or men who settle for someone who meets most of their desires, but are seriously lacking in other substantially important values or characteristics are in for an unbalanced relationship likely to crumble.
Modern women, and by that I mean every woman who’s on the planet right now who is in or open to a true love relationship, must develop relationship skills. One such skill or attribute is to know when a man trusts you with his heart, you must cherish his gift, protect it and never intentionally cause him emotional harm. Your love relationship is a sacred vessel not to be treated carelessly. What Bob said about not expecting more than he can give or trying to change him is important. Enlightened women know we can’t change other people, especially our man, but with that said we all know a little training may be in order from time to time. (Smile)
Until next time remember: The perfect partner for you is real, open your heart to the possibility, see it first and then believe it is happening for you.
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