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3 Keys to Manifesting the Love You Desire
Author: Gayla Wick
It’s 2012 and we’re in the middle of spring already. If this is your year for finding the love of your life, now is the time to focus on what happily coupled women have done to accelerate their love connection opportunities. While there are more steps involved in the attracting true love process, I’m going to share three of these keys with you today. Taking these steps will put you in the flow of higher level energy where you will easily become a magnet for love. This works for singles as well as couples who’d like to experience a deeper love connection.
*Make a decision. The Universe loves a decision. I’ve read this and I believe it to be a universal truth. My own life has proven this to me many times. The decisions I’m talking about are for all areas of your life. The day I truly understood the power of making a decision was the day I decided to choose happiness instead of living in victim-hood. That was the point of departure from my misery – the moment in time I realized that I could change my life, by changing my mind about my circumstances. Making that decision was the impetus for a plan to embrace a new way of being in the world. The role of victim had become boring, stale and unproductive. So I jettisoned what no longer worked for me in favor of behaving as if I already had the life I desired. This strategy worked extraordinarily well.
*Give it away. Kind, loving, happy, interested, capable, joyful people attract others who have those same characteristics. Those values and behaviors are not diminished in any way by giving them away. The Universal Law of Reciprocity responds to whoever initiates the action. Most of us have heard the axiom, if you want a friend you have to be a friend. So if you are seeking love, put your desire into action by being a loving person in all of your interactions and yes that includes work. Treat crabby people with a genuine smile and be nice to them no matter how they respond. They’ll’ wonder what you’re up to.
*Surrender. Oh, we Americans don’t much like this word. We like to win and watch our opponent do the surrendering. Webster says to surrender is to “yield something to the power of another.” Surrender to the power that created the world, the power that grows the carrot seed into the carrot after we put it in good soil, fertilize it and water it. Whatever you want to call that power is fine, but you know if it works to make a carrot out of a seed, it can work for the seeds you plant in your heart as well. So if you want love, plant seeds of love by being loving and refuse to worry about how it’s going to occur. The women I interviewed for my book said love came to them after they surrendered the search and embraced their own lives. They just let go and relaxed into knowing they were worthy of love themselves. Only then did the love of their life appear.
Until next time remember: Embody the values you are seeking in a partner and surrender any need to know how it’s going to happen.
